And i don't need to know

"You don't know what i have been through" Thats the statement they say often to justify. Really!! do you know how many people have gone through crazy s**t? and you come and tell me that this lousy excuse that you call rough is something that you want to give as a reason why your life is what it is. This is how people have come to attach and use excuses that bare no resemblance and have nothing to do with what they are doing and where they are. Checks this out, somebody that wakes up and scrambles for breakfast for their kids, has nothing to offer for lunch, kids have to go more than 2 miles to go to school. Bare feet they pace, run, trip over rocks or cross streams and rivers. They endure the bone chilling colds, melting sun, but on they go forward to school. At school the resources are bare to minimal, they attain and absorb as much as they can without even being exposed to media and modern technology. They stay at school the whole entire day to then trace their footprints going back home. They sometimes get home at night fall, play time they get is along the way going home, but later to be cut short by the sun thats setting. They get home the only food available is there just to keep the heart pumping to have them going another day or two till the next meal. And guess what? they do this everyday until one day they achieve the best from all the life's experiences and the education that they sacrificed for. Yes it does pay off. They never owned no Jordan shoes, XBOX or any gadget what so ever. Don't get me wrong neither do i condone fortunate families, we are different and that what makes the world a diverse place. Its more so about how we think that messed up, anyway these under privileged kids still get straight Aces at school. Yet you have someone on the other hand, the government takes care of and has free education, bus picks you up at your door step free of charge, school offers nourishing lunch, modern technology is at your finger tips. They have top of the art designed after school programs or something, again they can stay at school till late why? because the parents can pick them up from school or they can hop on the bus which they ride for free. They come home they sometimes have the luxury of choosing what they want to eat. They might share a room with a sibling but they still own a bed. Anyway this individual/s fails at school dismally or they always abscond and later on in life its the very same person that complains about life not being fare and telling you that"You don't know what i have been through" c'mon!!!. Because you failed yourself or your parents never gave s**t about shaping up your life, that does not give you license to do dumb shit, and reason negatively, hurt people and when you are locked up or when you are destitute, don't f****ng ask for remorse. No! you ain't getting nothing. I feel nothing but empathy, its your life shape it back to what you want it to be. Remember regardless how your family bringing has been, truth is you can learn to change you and only you.I cant even write about that person thats always whining, all because they are not getting things their way. I think this one is for another post. Appreciate where you are and make the most of what you have, be creative and be adventurous, explore whats out there, i am not talking about traveling, i am mean the beauty that mother nature has to offer, the simple things that lighten your world and give you motivation to achieve and succeed. Then off course if you are that privileged of fortunate individual don't get swallowed in that world of fortune because that fortune requires street smarts and knowledge that only mother nature can teach and give you. Be you and i be me.